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Coffee Heath Bar Crunch



I just finished an hour long run and was walking home through the West Village thinking about ice cream. I passed an old homeless man begging for change on Bleecker. Usually I’ll buy these guys pizza or a sub, but I don’t give them money because when I was a kid my mom told me they’d just buy alcohol and I wouldn’t be helping them. The street is overflowing with drunk twenty-somethings. This time I think: if he wants to get drunk he’s just like these people, no better, no worse. So I give him some quarters from my pocket. Then I turn into my local supermarket, now distracted by what I want to buy.

Kiwi’s for tomorrow breakfast, some hummus for the leftover pita bread, should I get that ice cream too? I wander towards the check out. I probably shouldn’t get the ice cream because I’d have to eat it all in one go since I’m leaving town tomorrow. From the line I can see the freezers. I really would enjoy coffee heath bar crunch, but then I have those Popsicles left. I should finish those first. The cashier starts to ring me up and to my surprise, the homeless man from outside gets in line behind me. He puts a pint of coffee heath bar ice cream on the counter. He’s got my quarters in his left hand and a couple wrinkled bills and a plastic spoon in his right. How strange that we desire the exact same thing at the exact same time. We’re not so different after all.

“What’s great about this country is that America started the tradition where the richest consumers buy essentially the same things as the poorest. You can be watching TV and see Coca Cola, and you know that the President drinks Coca Cola, Liz Taylor drinks Coca Cola, and just think, you can drink Coca Cola, too. A coke is a coke and no amount of money can get you a better coke than the one the bum on the corner is drinking. All the cokes are the same and all the cokes are good. Liz Taylor knows it, the President knows it, the bum knows it, and you know it.”
(Ch. 6 : Work, p. 100, Andy Warhol, The Philosophy of Andy Warhol)

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The Flag of Equal Marriage


The flag of equal marriage was designed by Carl Tashian, you can read about it here on his site http://tashian.com/makeitequal/.

Not allowing same-sex marriage is a violation of basic civil rights (which include protection from discrimination). Under United States law marriage grants couples many rights. Below the jump read up on them and find out what same-sex couples are being excluded from. Then join the facebook group and learn how to take action.


Tax Benefits


* Filing joint income tax returns with the IRS and state taxing authorities.
* Creating a “family partnership” under federal tax laws, which allows you to divide business income among family members.

Estate Planning Benefits


* Inheriting a share of your spouse’s estate.
* Receiving an exemption from both estate taxes and gift taxes for all property you give or leave to your spouse.
* Creating life estate trusts that are restricted to married couples, including QTIP trusts, QDOT trusts, and marital deduction trusts.
* Obtaining priority if a conservator needs to be appointed for your spouse — that is, someone to make financial and/or medical decisions on your spouse’s behalf.

Government Benefits

* Receiving Social Security, Medicare, and disability benefits for spouses.
* Receiving veterans’ and military benefits for spouses, such as those for education, medical care, or special loans.
* Receiving public assistance benefits.

Employment Benefits

* Obtaining insurance benefits through a spouse’s employer.
* Taking family leave to care for your spouse during an illness.
* Receiving wages, workers’ compensation, and retirement plan benefits for a deceased spouse.
* Taking bereavement leave if your spouse or one of your spouse’s close relatives dies.

Medical Benefits

* Visiting your spouse in a hospital intensive care unit or during restricted visiting hours in other parts of a medical facility.
* Making medical decisions for your spouse if he or she becomes incapacitated and unable to express wishes for treatment.

Death Benefits


* Consenting to after-death examinations and procedures.
* Making burial or other final arrangements.

Family Benefits

* Filing for stepparent or joint adoption.
* Applying for joint foster care rights.
* Receiving equitable division of property if you divorce.
* Receiving spousal or child support, child custody, and visitation rights if you divorce.

Housing Benefits


* Living in neighborhoods zoned for “families only.”
* Automatically renewing leases signed by your spouse.

Consumer Benefits


* Receiving family rates for health, homeowners’, auto, and other types of insurance.
* Receiving tuition discounts and permission to use school facilities.
* Other consumer discounts and incentives offered only to married couples or families.

Other Legal Benefits and Protections


* Suing a third person for wrongful death of your spouse and loss of consortium (loss of intimacy).
* Suing a third person for offenses that interfere with the success of your marriage, such as alienation of affection and criminal conversation (these laws are available in only a few states).
* Claiming the marital communications privilege, which means a court can’t force you to disclose the contents of confidential communications between you and your spouse during your marriage.
* Receiving crime victims’ recovery benefits if your spouse is the victim of a crime.
* Obtaining immigration and residency benefits for noncitizen spouse.
* Visiting rights in jails and other places where visitors are restricted to immediate family.

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Rain

It is 48°F (9°C) and rainy in NY.



Wet toes inside wet socks inside shoes that were supposed to be waterproof. The whole situation was gruesome, thought John Greeland as he stooped under the drooping awning his wife had made him install over the front steps. Now she wanted it fixed. His life had recently taken on an inescapable quality. At first, alone in the storm, he had felt refreshed. It was an escape from the feverish kitchen his wife and two daughters berated him in. They had started at him because of a newspaper article.

“Friday March 17th, Guadalajara, Mexico. Hundreds of women in a Mexican factory filed charges against their supervisors for sexual assault,” read his eldest daughter Maya, her voice powerful from years of education and privilege.

“You see that,” his wife said, “you see that!” It was as if she had predicted this. As if they lived next to this factory and she’d known about the misconduct of the supervisors for years. Waverly, Massachusetts does not border Guadalajara, he wanted to say.

“Men are such jerks,” his youngest daughter Clara agreed, her small head bobble-nodding in agreement.

“I suppose so,” he said looking at the window glass turned amorphous by the torrential rain streaming across it.

“Did you fix the awning?” his wife said.

“Yeah dad, you need to do that, me and Clara got soaked yesterday.”

“I thought I would wait for the rain to stop, there’s about a hundred pounds of water hanging in it.”

“All the more reason to do it,” his wife loved logic. “If you wait the water won’t go away, right? So do it now. Are you worried about getting wet? Your own daughters came in drenched yesterday when it tipped. That’s gonna happen to some poor person again at this rate.”

John did not point out that it would inevitably happen to him if he went out and messed with it. The three women had already distracted themselves and the conversation was over.


Diana’s mother’s car pulled up in the driveway. His mother-in-law’s boyfriend got out. Robert. Six years after his mother-in-law’s death Robert still came by. His visits always left John exhausted and refreshed. Like the long runs he’d taken before his daughters were born. Arguing with Robert left John feeling entirely relaxed and calm and often he fell asleep sitting in the living room after Robert left.

“Hi John,” Robert yelled, “What are you doing out here?”

“My wives told me to fix the awning,” John referred to his daughters as wives when speaking to Robert. His wives had no idea that he did this.

“Ah the days of fulfillment, of doing a woman’s bidding,” Robert said standing next to him, looking at the pile of torn down awning and then to John’s soaked composure.

“I’d swap with you in a day,” John said to start an argument.

“You don’t—” Robert started angrily, then Diana stuck her head out of the front door.

“Robert! Get in here! Why are you standing in the rain!” And then added, “John I didn’t realize you were going to take down the whole damn thing.”

“OK see you inside,” Robert said to John and left him standing in the yard.

John came inside when it got dark and his wives couldn’t look out into the yard and see the mess he’d left. Robert was with his family in the living room enjoying cookies made by his daughters and being served a second round of tea when he passed through to change into dry clothes.

“Don’t shower now Dad or you won’t get to talk to Robert, he has to leave in thirty minutes,” Clara said.

Diana followed John upstairs. She stood in the doorway and watched him pulling off his clothes, awkwardly trying not to to sit on anything while he removed his socks first, then his heavy jeans. She didn’t say anything. The silence was unusual, but so nice John didn’t say anything. He hoped she was thinking about his body. Maybe she was. He didn’t find a towel right away and instead strode around in front of her finding dry clothes and hanging up his wet ones in the bathtub more meticulously than he would if she weren’t looking. He imagined himself to be the best horse at show, his muscles flexing softly as he paraded back and forth.

“John,” Diana said. Her voice was shallow, breathy, he was surprised that his own fantasy might actually be real. He looked up at her. Her flushed cheeks, her sweater undone one button too low. “We aren’t connecting,” she said.

“Well close the door, Robert will keep the girls entertained.”

“What? I don’t need to fight about this now and the girls already know.”

“Know what? That we have sex? Yes, I suppose they do.”

“Sex. Sex! Is that all you think about?”

“No. I thought you were asking…”

“Robert and I are sleeping together.”

John didn’t say anything. He was surprised. Not that his wife was having an affair. Not that his daughters knew. Not that Diana had unbuttoned her blouse too low for Robert. He was surprised that he felt that same calm. “It’s okay,” he said, “I’ll just take a nap and you all can sort it out downstairs.”

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Feminism among other things


Wednesday afternoon a couple hundred students and professors mill around Columbia. The weather is good so those that aren’t heading to class hang out on the steps. In a post-lecture stupor the spring air has made me hyperobservant. Perhaps this is the reason I am the only person staring at a thirty-something well dressed man standing against a well pruned hedge. Not leaning on it, pressed up against it from his belly button to his ankles. Tons of people are walking by and a couple jostle me which probably makes it more obvious that I’m staring at him but he’s focused on something else. Then he pulls away. His penis is exposed. He was peeing! And that’s it. He zips up his pants and walks away from the bush. (Note, stop dragging fingers along campus shrubbery.) More than disgust and wonderment I felt a profound sense of unfairness. This is what feminism should be about, I thought. Why can’t I pee in a bush surrounded by hundreds of people and get away with it? Who cares that I’ll make 72 cents to the dollar if I have to go pee badly.

So when I got home I did what I always do when I’m feeling social unrest. I googled the issue. “Feminism peeing.” Believe or not public toilets EXIST because of feminism and the fact that women can’t just pee anywhere.

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Your Generation of Hypocrisy begat My Apathetic (!?) One



My generation (sometimes “Y”, sometimes “Millennial”) has been getting a bad rap. Just look at the Adbusters article that has 4039 comments (adbusters) and declares the hipster movement the “end of Western civilization,” or the Thomas Friedman article in the New York times that dubs us “Generation Q,” for quiet (nytimes). These articles (15 thousand Google hits on “Gen Y apathetic”) usually miss the essential characteristics of our generation because the writers can’t seem to imagine the world from our perspective. Things older people find novel and amazing —the Internet, cell phones, mass media, international culture of consumerism, American hegemony — are second nature to us. While these writers are distracted by the fact that we all dress alike, write daily blogs, and are more educated and privileged than any other generation, they don’t understand that these are relatively unimportant side effects of the phenomena listed above.

We have been called “a lost generation…[not] giving birth to anything new” and “too quiet, too online.” In fact the opposite is true. There is a deafening roar in cyberspace. If a presidential election can be won through the support of an online movement, if articles and ideas can reach tens of millions of people overnight, and create a four thousand person discussion, if youtube can receive 200,000 new videos a day, then being “too quiet” and “too online” is the opinion of someone who doesn’t understand what it means to be online. Not creating anything new and not being loud enough are not our problems. So why the disrespect from the famous 60s generation? Because we aren’t doing what they want us to do.

Most of us were born after the end of the Cold War or were too young to remember it. The political climate we grew up in was one of supreme hypocrisy. One President nearly got impeached for a superficial sex scandal and then another later broke international laws to pre-emptively start a war without UN support and was re-elected to serve 2 full terms without so much as a breath of legal retribution.

The problem my generation faces is inheriting a world that baffles us: a world of hypocrisy and crisis; a world on the brink of collapse yet at the height of human civilization.

Imagine for a moment being one of us. Taught in school that all people are created equal, that all countries are sovereign, that freedom, democracy, and capitalism are embraced by all people and nations because they are ultimate ideals that allow us to prosper and live as we choose in the pursuit of happiness. Old enough to read the New York Times online and blog on Huffington Post, we see a very different world. Equality? Not for the poor, not for LGBT. Capitalism? It appears to have been a house of cards recklessly constructed by greed for the benefit of a few. Sovereignty? Not for resource-poor or oil-rich countries. Ideals? Not for the media or our political and business leaders.

Now we must navigate a world where a concentration of power, wealth, and media often conflicts with every ideal the Western world is supposed to stand for. If you think we are too quiet and too online you should consider that we have two choices. One, to accept the values we were taught to believe in and totally redefine and reconstruct the way our government/economy/society works so that these ideals match reality. Or two, to accept the world we live in and think up a new set of values to justify our lives.

Neither is easy or obvious. Hopefully we pick number one, and figure out how to sort out the hypocrisy. But for now we are faced with nearly insurmountable problems and need the cooperation of the untouchable elite. Friedman says global warming is our problem and we ought to be screaming for our leaders to do something. Perhaps you don’t hear our screams because we gave up long ago on a having a government that listens to citizens, or on the ability of that government to take on big business by kicking it out of the bed. Friedman should be shouting at his own generation. The ones who own Haliburton and run the Whitehouse, the Rupert Murdochs, the Robert Rubins, the Bernard Madoffs, the lawyers and the doctors he wants us to aspire to who haven’t done much to change the 60 million uninsured Americans, the declining rate of high school completion, the 10,000 who die every day in Africa, the much needed CO2 emissions reductions, or publicizing Ban Ki Moon’s 3 year window.

Take global warming, perhaps the biggest issue our generation faces. If worldwide CO2 emissions don’t start coming down in the very near future, my generation will be saddled with the “catastrophic effects” predicted by the IPCC: more starvation and death in Africa and elsewhere, resource wars, mass immigration, mass extinction, and many more unimaginables.

But the example that the generation in power has modeled for us is that it doesn’t matter. Being an American is having the opportunity to buy that huge house and oversized SUV, become an investment banker, and get huge annual bonuses with no basis in value creation. And the consequences for everyone else? Irrelevant. That’s how you defined freedom and success.

The problems and the contradictions being left to us are so big that there are no easy answers. It appears that everything has to be undone, before it can redone. So let us figure out how we want to proceed. Let us “waste” our time like Mark Zuckerburg building a 150 million person online network because it may be the only hope we have. Your generation doesn’t know what it means to be a global citizen the way our generation will have to. And those values you taught us, they seem pretty empty when you don’t act on them yourselves. If you want us to change the world, don’t look at your sixteen-year-old listening to an ipod while writing on Facebook and watching youtube and yell at him that he’s wasting his privileges. Instead, start cleaning up your own messes. Lead by example. End your own hypocrisies. Start caring about the rest of the world and not just yourselves.

Meanwhile, let us figure out how we can use these tools that enable mass distribution and organization of ideas. It’s likely that these will be the tools we need.

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Thanks Omair!


One of Funny and Interesting’s readers, Omair, sent me this link to GapMinder . I’ve used the site for a couple of my blog posts but I forgot to share it. So go forth and find out who has the most oil, the best teeth, the fewest children, and the most money!

He also directed me to the TED talk given by Hans Rosling. And no matter what you’re interested in there’s a TED talk you should watch!

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Interview New York


I haven’t been posting as often as usual because I’ve been busy starting up an interactive web art project. We won’t be launching until this summer but you can follow our progress here:
http://interviewnewyork.blogspot.com/



Type rest of the post here

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Andrew Elliott Part 2

The man who brought you Index of the Ordinary (http://indexoftheordinary.com/) launches another website with an extensive portfolio of his work (http://www.andrew-elliott.com/). See more polished funny and interesting images like these:


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Take note: Index of the Ordinary

Today is finally the launch of the much anticipated Index of the Ordinary (http://indexoftheordinary.com). Photographer Andrew Elliott gives his audience alphabitzed poetry. Search “cat” or “cow” or “crossing” and find something lyrical. The quiet grace of the photographs creates the perfect contrast between calm and common, and startling and beautiful. Below are photographs from the site and a short interview with Andrew.







Cameron: What was your first job taking photos?
Andrew: My first job was photographing couples imitating the “Jack I”m flying” scene from the Titanic. It was against an ocean backdrop in a huge titanic themed restaurant with 2 levels and an actual life raft in it. I was 21.

Cameron: Whose work inspires you? (Authors/Artists etc.)
Andrew: Jonathan Lethem (www.jonathanlethem.com) , Tibor Kalman (on wikipedia), Gerhard Richter (gerhard-richter.com), Wolfgang Tillmans (tillmans.co.uk), Bruce Davidson (davidson photography), Shomei Tomatsu (on wikipedia), Martin Parr (martinparr.com), Jonas Bendiksen (jonasbendiksen.com), Robin Schwartz (robinschwartz.net), Josef Koudelka (at magnum), Kurt Vonnegut (vonnegut.com), Eikoh Hosoe (on wikipedia), Sonic Youth (sonicyouth.com), Taryn Simon (tarynsimon.com)…

Cameron: Any favorite searches we should do when we get to the index?
Andrew: Photography, suburbs, donkey.

Thanks Andrew and best of luck on your new website!

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Hate

(Students at CRLS)
This isn’t funny but it certainly is interesting. My little sister just told me the Westboro Baptist Church is coming to her public high school in Cambridge to protests gay students. Their website (http://www.godhatesfags.com/) has pictures of kids holding incredibly rude and violent posters. One, for example, reads “Aids cures fags.” I’m all about freedom of speech but isn’t their some legal precedent from stopping angry and hurtful mobs from accosting school children? It is horrifying that children at a public school in the United States, where all are created equal and supposed to be given equal opportunity rights will be bullied by adults and children for doing nothing except for peacefully being themselves. Some internet research also brought me to youtube where “westboro baptist church protests” shows a movie of protestors at a soldier’s funeral. These people are definately crossing some lines but what should the high schoolers do about it?

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